1. Transformation from ME to US
A relationship is nothing if all the feelings, sacrifices, and contributions, and hard work are only coming from one end. When you decided to commit to being with your partner, you decided to sacrifice the “ I’s “ for the “ Us “, you are now a team. ( WE)
When making all major decisions Always Keep Your Partner In Mind. You are a direct representation of him and vice versa.
2. Practice forgiveness
MAJOR KEY 🔑
“Forgiveness is a sign that the person who has wronged you means more to you than the wrong they have dealt “ -Ben Greenhalgh
In relationships there will be many obstacles faced , but the strong relationships are the ones who go through everything that is meant to tear them apart, and come out even stronger than before. This is especially important for millennial relationships, because in our generation temptation is extremely high. Cheating is being promoted in song lyrics, media platforms, and girls naturally have lower morals, and self esteem issues. These circumstances are unfortunate, and cause many breakups.
1st - make sure HE/SHE understands the wrong that has been done.
2nd - Communicate how this decision made you feel.
3rd - Analyze HIS/HER sincerity.
4th - Consider the situation overall. Pause the anger, and think logical. #DONTBEAFOOL || Do you love this person enough to grant a second chance?
Lastly - make your decision.
No man is perfect, but give credit to the man that tries.
3. Respect personal time
Allowing personal space is essential. Understand that growing together requires growing separately.
Schedule a Girls / Guys night
Leave him to play games ALONE.
Join a club.
Start a Magazine 😹
4. Make time
You define what is important to you by what you dedicate your time to.
In this busy, disordered world of everyday routine, and responsibility. It is easy to forget that your spouse needs attention.
Intimacy is the OIL of Relationships
Although intimacy is more exciting from random arousal, try and set aside time for intimacy, even if it's a "mental schedule" that you don't share physically with you partner.
Have a regular date night. || Try new adventures together.
Go to the movies
Vacation get aways
Often we like to judge the strength of our relationships love by having our partners witness us at our worst. However there will be plenty of moments when you're not looking your best. Have you ever heard of the cold, flu, and your period. Looking a mess will happen naturally over time. Truth is appearance does matter, and it adds to our levels of emotion.
Overtime you become more and more comfortable with each other, it's natural and it's not a bad thing.
You stop matching your undergarments
Fall asleep in tshirts and shorts
Sleep with bonnets, and scarves
Fart and burp around each other’
When you've reached this level of comfort, it's amazing but it is dangerous. Seriously think about it, there was a reason why you didn't start off doing these things in the first place, it's unattractive and while it may feel great temporarily overtime it will become impulsive. Even if your partner does not voice these opinions to you, they are thinking it. Small things like this add to the risk of cheating because, now when your partner sees someone else whose total opposite of these things, which you once were HE/SHE is more attracted to this person.
Try and always look your best as much as possible.